Betty always recommends high-quality sex toys made specifically for booty play and anal sex, with good reason. Watch our informative video guide and find out what we recommend for safe anal play. 

The Ultimate Guide to Safe Anal Play: What You Can and Cannot Put in Your Butt

Welcome to another fun and educational chat from Betty's Toy Box! Today, we're diving into an important topic: what you can and cannot put in your butt. Whether you're just curious or considering experimenting with anal play, safety should always come first.

The Dangers of the Wrong Objects

You may have come across funny yet horrifying stories of people getting strange objects stuck in their bums. While they make for entertaining internet content, the reality is that the most common objects people get stuck are everyday vegetables like carrots and cucumbers. So, rule number one: stay away from household items and stick to purpose-made toys!

Understanding Anal Anatomy: Why Things Get Stuck

A little anatomy lesson will help explain why safety matters so much. Your anus has two sets of sphincter muscles:

• The external sphincter – This is the muscle you can control, which relaxes with proper stimulation and lubrication.

• The internal sphincter – This one is involuntary, and its job is to keep things in place (like preventing accidents). The issue with this muscle is that it can also suck objects inward, and once something goes too far, retrieving it without medical help becomes difficult.

If you insert the wrong object, your body might pull it in, and you could end up in the emergency room. That's why choosing the right anal-safe toys is crucial.

What Makes a Safe Anal Toy?

1. A Flared Base

The most important safety feature of an anal toy is a flared base. This prevents the toy from getting lost inside you.

• A beginner-friendly anal plug has a small, tapered tip and a wide base to keep it securely in place.

• Never use objects that don’t have a proper base, as lubricant can make them slippery and hard to control.

2. Different Types of Safe Anal Toys

There are many types of anal-safe toys, each designed for different levels of experience and comfort:

• Beginner-friendly anal plugs – These are small and designed to ease you into anal play.

• Toys with loop handles – A great option for better grip and control.

• Beaded anal toys – Designed with a secure loop for safe removal.

• Prostate massagers – Specifically angled to stimulate the prostate while staying securely in place.

• Long-term wear plugs – These have a comfortable, curved base for extended use.

3. What NOT to Use

Avoid anything that lacks a proper base or handle, such as:

• Vegetables (yes, even cucumbers and carrots!)

• Small vibrators without a base

• Household objects like bottles, markers, or remote controls

Invest in the Right Toys for a Safe and Fun Experience

Even if you’re just curious and want to experiment, it’s worth investing in safe, purpose-made anal toys. They aren’t expensive, and they eliminate the risk of painful ER visits. High-quality silicone anal toys and beginner-friendly plugs cost about the same as a small vibrator, so there’s no reason to risk using unsafe alternatives.

Final Tips for Safe Anal Play

• Always use lube – Unlike the vagina, the anus does not self-lubricate. A good water-based or silicone-based lubricant is essential.

• Go slow – Take your time and listen to your body.

• Choose the right size – Start small and gradually increase if you feel comfortable.

• Use toys designed for anal play – Stick to anal-specific toys with flared bases or loop handles.

Conclusion: Keep It Safe and Enjoy!

At Betty's Toy Box, we care about your safety and pleasure. If you’re interested in exploring anal play, do it the right way—with toys designed for the job.

Remember, always use anal-specific toys for anal play, and stay safe. We don’t want to see you in the ER!

This has been your public service announcement from Betty's Toy Box. Happy (and safe) exploring!