How to Give a Sex Toy As a Gift
Gifting a sex toy can be a fun, exciting, and deeply personal way to show someone you care, but there are some things you may want to consider before you hit the 'buy' button. Whether you're shopping for a partner or a friend, let Betty provide you with the insights and tips you need to make a confident and informed purchase.
Understanding the Importance of Consent
Before we dive into the fun stuff, let's talk about something fundamental: consent. Giving a sex toy as a gift can be an intimate gesture, so it's crucial to ensure that the recipient will be comfortable and enthusiastic about it. What you may think is thrilling may make somebody else uncomfortable so here are Betty's tips on reading the room.
How to Gauge Their Interest
- Open Conversations: Have open, non-judgmental conversations about sexuality and intimacy. This will give you a sense of their comfort level and interests.
- Subtle Hints: Pay attention to subtle hints or comments they make about sex toys or related topics. Has your friend ever mentioned using a toy before? Have you ever spoken about your own toys or their desire to try something out?
- Direct Questions: Sometimes, the best way is to ask directly. For example, "Would you be open to exploring new things in the bedroom?" or "Have you ever used a vibrator before?"
Remember, consent is sexy and essential.
Shopping Together
One of the best ways to ensure you pick the right toy is to shop together. This approach not only guarantees that you'll choose something they like but also turns the shopping process into a fun and intimate activity. This works with buying for a friend as well.
The Benefits of Joint Shopping
Shopping together allows you to explore different options and discuss them in real-time. It's an excellent opportunity to learn more about each other's desires and boundaries. Plus, it can be a fun bonding experience that brings you closer together.
Making It a Date
Turn the shopping trip into a date night. Go out for dinner, have a few drinks, and then visit a sex toy shop or browse online together. This relaxed atmosphere can make the experience more enjoyable and less intimidating.
Gift Cards: A Safe and Versatile Option
If you're unsure about what to buy, consider opting for a gift card. This allows the recipient to choose something that truly appeals to them, ensuring they get exactly what they want.
Why Gift Cards Work
Gift cards take the guesswork out of the equation. They offer flexibility and personal choice, plus a level of privacy, which can be particularly beneficial if you're not entirely sure about the recipient's preferences. At Betty's we have gift cards in a range of denominations which can be deliverd straight to the recipients inbox.
Personalizing the Gift Card Experience
To make the gift card feel more personal, you can pair it with a handwritten note or a small, related gift, like a bottle of massage oil or a cute storage pouch for their future toy. This added touch shows that you put thought into the gift, even if you didn't choose the toy itself.
Choosing the Perfect Naughty Gift
When selecting a naughty gift, consider the following:
- Level of Experience: Is the recipient a seasoned toy user or a complete novice? Choose something that matches their experience level.
- Type of Toy: There are various types of toys, from vibrators and dildos to bondage gear and couples’ toys. Make sure to select something that aligns with their interests and comfort level.
- Quality: Invest in high-quality products from reputable brands to ensure safety and satisfaction.
Now that you have the green light, it's time to pick the perfect toy. Here are some sex toy gift ideas to consider:
Massage Candle or Oils
A massage candle is a fantastic introductory gift. It combines the romance of candlelight with the sensuality of a massage oil. Light the candle, let it melt, and then use the warm oil for a soothing massage. Or you can opt for a sensual massage oil which doubles as a luxurious body moisturizer.
Vibrators
Vibrators are a classic choice and come in many shapes and sizes. If you're unsure which one to pick, consider starting with a small, discreet bullet vibrator. They're non-intimidating and versatile.
Light Bondage or Sensory Play
Looking to spice things up? Naughty gifts like handcuffs, blindfolds, or a feather tickler can add an element of playful adventure. Just make sure your partner is into it!
Gift Set
If you can't decide on just one item, why not go for a gift set? These often include a variety of toys and accessories, providing a well-rounded experience. Betty's also has themed mystery boxes you can choose from so you both get a sexy surprise!
Creating a Positive Atmosphere
When giving the gift, think about timing and how the recipient may feel about opening a sex toy in front of others. Is it for a bachelorette party? Present it to the bride privately before the party begins if you're uncertain how it will be received. Once the gift is opened, it's important to create a positive and comfortable atmosphere.
Open Communication
Encourage open communication with your partner about the gift. Ask questions like, "Do you like it?" or "How do you feel about trying this together?" If they seem reluctant or embarrassed, make it clear that there's no pressure to use the toy right away. Let them know it's there whenever they feel ready.
Exploring Together
If the gift is for a partner, exploring it together can be a wonderful bonding experience. Set the mood with soft lighting, relaxing music, and perhaps a glass of wine. This can help both of you feel more relaxed and connected.
Take It Slow
Take your time exploring the toy. Read the instructions together, try it out, and communicate throughout the experience.
Conclusion: Celebrate Your Intimacy
Giving a sex toy as a gift can be a wonderful way to celebrate your intimacy and explore new experiences together. It can also be a way to show a friend that you care about their intimate happiness. Remember, the key is to approach it with sensitivity, consent, and a sense of fun.
Happy gifting!