Essential Tips for Choosing the Perfect Dildo

Betty's has a large selection of dildos in every shape, size, and color imaginable which means navigating our collection can be an exhilarating yet daunting experience. With such a plethora of options available, finding the perfect dildo might seem overwhelming. But fear not! Betty has you covered. Armed with essential tips and insights, you can make an informed decision that suits your unique desires and needs. Whether you're a seasoned explorer or a curious newcomer, understanding what to consider will ensure your satisfaction and pleasure.

Understanding Your Needs

Before diving into the specifics, it's crucial to understand your personal needs and preferences. Are you seeking something that mimics realism or perhaps something more abstract and artistic? Understanding your preferences will guide you towards the dildo that feels just right for you.

What Do You Like?

Take a moment to reflect on your desires. Consider what sensations you enjoy and which features are non-negotiable. Are you looking for something discreet or bold and vibrant? Do you want your dildo to mimic the feel of a real penis or do you want something more unique? Understanding your needs will create a foundation for choosing the perfect toy.

Exploring the World of Materials

The material of your dildo is a pivotal factor, influencing both the sensation and safety of your experience. With various options available, it’s essential to prioritize both comfort and health.

Silicone: The Gold Standard

Silicone is the gold standard in dildo materials. Its non-porous nature ensures it can be thoroughly cleaned, making it both body-safe and durable. Silicone dildos also offer a realistic touch, providing a delightful sensory experience. Dual density silicone is a technique where a softer, flexible silicone is molded over a firmer core, giving the feel of a real erection.

Glass and Metal: For the Adventurous

For those seeking a different tactile experience, glass and metal dildos offer unique sensations. These materials are also non-porous, allowing for easy cleaning. They can be used for temperature play, adding an exciting dimension to your exploration. We recommend glass or metal for those who want firm, consistent stimulation to the g-spot or prostate.

TPR, TPE and PVC: Consider with Caution

TPR, TPE (thermoplastic elastomers) and PVC (polyvinyl chloride) are porous materials that can harbor bacteria. All of Betty's options in these materials are phthalate-free but must be cleaned rigorously between uses. These materials do not have the same lifespan as silicone, which can last for years.

For a more in-depth look at materials, check out Sex Toy Materials: The Complete Guide

Size Matters: Finding the Right Fit

The size of your dildo can significantly impact your experience. Here, you should consider both length and girth to ensure comfort and pleasure. Betty recommends taking out a measuring tape and seeing just what the measurements look like in real life. While 6 inches may not sound huge, it is still taller than a soda can.

Length and Girth

Consider what size feels most comfortable and pleasurable for you. If you're uncertain, start with a moderate size and gradually experiment with different dimensions as you become more confident and experienced. Keep in mind that the average erect penis is 5.16 inches from root to tip and 1.5 inches wide or 4.59 inches in girth.

We recommend you check out A Beginner's Guide to Picking the Right Size Dildo for You

Proportional Play

Bear in mind that larger isn’t always better. Finding a size that suits your body and preferences will ensure a more enjoyable and satisfying experience.

Firmness and Flexibility: What to Look For

Firmness and flexibility play critical roles in how a dildo feels during use. Some prefer a firmer toy for more targeted stimulation, while others might enjoy the gentle give of a softer model.

Firm Dildos

Firm dildos provide a stable and more intense sensation. They are often ideal for those who enjoy precise stimulation or want a toy that can stand up to robust use.

Flexible Dildos

Flexible dildos can adapt to your body’s contours, providing a gentler, more adaptable experience. They can be great for beginners or those exploring different positions and angles.

Suction Cup Dildos: Hands-Free Fun

Suction cup dildos offer versatility and convenience, allowing for hands-free enjoyment. They can be attached to various surfaces, enhancing your playtime options. A well-designed suction cup will adhere securely to smooth surfaces, providing stability for a seamless experience. Consider where you plan to use your dildo and ensure the suction cup can accommodate those locations.

Realism vs. Fantasy: Choosing Your Aesthetic

The aesthetic of your dildo is a highly personal choice, and options range from ultra-realistic designs to fantastical creations. Whether you prefer something that mimics human anatomy or something completely unique, the choice is yours.

Realistic Dildos

Realistic dildos often feature detailed textures and lifelike shapes. These can provide a more traditional experience, catering to those who appreciate the authentic feel.

Fantasy Dildos

Fantasy dildos offer creative designs and vibrant colors, allowing for a more imaginative experience. They can be a fun way to explore new sensations and visual styles.

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Squirting Dildos

Squirting dildos are designed to ejaculate on command either by pressing a button or pumping a syringe. These can be filled with your fluid of choice, although there are some specific Realistic Looking Cum Lubes you can use as well. Squirting dildos are a fun way to role play or fulfill fantasies. 

Practical Tips for First-Time Buyers

If you're a first-time buyer, here are some practical tips to guide your purchase:

Start with a Budget

Determine a budget that feels comfortable for you. There are quality options available at various price points, so you don’t need to break the bank to find a satisfying toy. You use Betty's filter function to narrow down your desired price point. 

Research and Reviews

Take the time to read reviews and research different brands. Customer feedback can provide valuable insights into the performance and quality of a product. You can also contact Betty's expert staff via our live chat or through email with any questions you may have.

Embrace Your Journey

Choosing the perfect dildo is a journey of self-discovery and empowerment. By understanding your needs and exploring the available options, you can make a choice that enhances your pleasure and satisfaction.

Remember, there’s no right or wrong choice—only what feels right for you. Embrace your individuality and celebrate your sexuality with confidence and pride.

With these tips in mind, you're now equipped to explore the diverse and exciting world of dildos. Enjoy your journey and happy exploring!

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