Betty's Top 10 Tips for the Best Blow Job Ever

March 14 is Steak and a Blow Job Day and if you're in the mood to celebrate, Betty is here to share her top 10 blow job tips so you can treat your partner ot the best blow job ever. 

START SLOWLY

You’re not making a porno and there’s no need to just dive right in. Licking, kissing, and sucking up and down the sides of the shaft helps to tease more blood into the penis for a fuller, more aroused feeling. 

FLICK THE FRENULUM

Apply a gentle flicking motion with the tip of your tongue. For many, the frenulum is the most sensitive spot on the penis and this is a great way to build up that pleasure with a tease instead of just diving in and sucking.

USE YOUR HANDS AND MOUTH

Let’s face it, fitting an entire penis in your mouth is better left to the pros. Get your hands in there with one  around the base and the other stacked on top. Move them up and down with the rhythm of your head. This makes your hands an extension of your mouth, keeping the penis enveloped the entire time. Just make sure you have lots of saliva or lube happening. 

SALIVA IS YOUR FRIEND

A blow job can’t possibly have too much lubrication. Let your saliva flow freely down onto your hand so you can work it up and down over the shaft. This is going to decrease friction and make for a thrilling glide. If you’re worried about producing enough saliva, you can try the Doc Johnson Goodhead sprays or liquids that help you salivate more (and with yummy flavors to boot)

KEEP YOUR TONGUE SOFT

In a blowjob, when your partner’s penis is in your mouth, you should keep your tongue soft, adding warmth, texture and wetness to the experience. Keep the tip of your tongue for penis head and frenulum play. 

ASSUME THE POSITION

Despite what you see in porn, the giver on their knees with the receiver standing in front of them is actually a really uncomfortable blow job position for lots of folks. If the receiver wants to be on their back, try propping them on pillows and get between their legs so they have an easier view of what you’re doing. Kneel or lay beside them for a great view. Don’t be afraid to incorporate pillows under your knees, under their hips, or wherever you feel you need them. Nobody is going to enjoy the experience if they end up with a stiff neck or sore knees.

WATCH YOUR TEETH

The skin of the penis is extremely thin and delicate. Make sure you keep your teeth out of the equation by wrapping your lips around your teeth. If your partner is larger, it may be difficult to suck without your teeth getting involved, so this would be a good time to use your hands on the thicker base and keep your mouth for the tip where you have more control.

DON'T FORGET THE BALLS

Not everybody likes their balls played with during a blow job, but if they do, gentle pulling, gripping, and sucking can feel amazing. Emphasis on the word ‘gentle.’ 

ORGASM ISN'T THE GOAL 

Taking a blow job all the way to orgasm happens in porn all the time but it shouldn’t be the goal. You should both be enjoying the act equally and if you are becoming uncomfortable or sore, it’s time to move on to something else on the sexual menu. Equally important, if you are striving to give your partner an orgasm, there should be some agreement as to where they are going to cum. There is no rule saying your partner should cum in your mouth or that you have to swallow. Don’t feel obligated to do something that you’re not enthusiastically into. 

SHOW YOUR ENTHUSIAM

This seems like a no-brainer but it’s easy to get caught up in trying to do everything ‘right’ that we forget to let our partner know we’re having a good time. Make eye contact, moan, or tell them straight out how turned on you are by giving them a blow job. This is going to heighten their arousal and give you both more of a connection.