Betty's Checklist for Choosing the Perfect Vibrator
Vibrators come in so many shapes and sizes, it can be impossible to choose. Every year hundreds of new styles hit the market with promises of superior orgasms and mind-blowing stimulation but how do you wade through the endless choices and choose the perfect vibrator for you? Here is a check-list for choosing the perfect vibrator for your body and your needs.
CAN I AFFORD IT?
At Betty’s we NEVER want you to blow your budget on an expensive vibrator if you have no idea what you want. Think about what you want to spend and work within that budget. There are plenty of lower cost vibes out there which will allow you to figure out what you like (and hate) if you want to save up for something pricier later on. You can visit our Fabulous Vibrator Finds Under $40 to get started.
DO I WANT SOMETHING INSERTABLE?
Do you want to be able to insert this vibrator into your body – either vaginally or anally? If that thought holds some appeal, then a small bullet vibrator is not going to do the job. Particularly with anal play, only use toys with a flared base or large handle so that it doesn’t get pulled into the rectum by those powerful muscles (Yes it happens. Yes, it will get stuck). We have 2 articles you should check out if you’re looking for anal play toys. Beginner’s Guide to Prostate (or P-Spot) Stimulation and 6 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex for Women.
AM I USING IT WITH A PARTNER or SOLO or BOTH?
Many folks have their first vibrator experience with a partner and there is certainly no shortage of couple’s toys out there but not all of them are a great fit when you try to use them solo. A great bullet is a classic bullet shaped vibrator but it is compact enough to fit between you and act as a stimulator during partnered sex as well. Wands are also great for sharing or using solo.
WHAT TURNS ME ON WHEN I’M ALONE?
If you like really intense clitoral stimulation, then you may want to try an air pressure toy like the Womanizer Starlet which is the compact, beginner’s version of this line of clitoral powerhouse toys.
For lovers of all-around stimulation, the Magic Wand Original has, for over 30 years, been a budget friendly, powerful machine that can caress every inch of skin. And, of course, there is always the classic rabbit vibrator for that fantastic feeling of fullness plus external stimulation.
DOES IT NEED TO BE QUIET OR WATERPROOF?
Got roommates? Like to indulge in the shower or tub? You don’t want to break out your new vibrator and discover it sounds like a jet plane coming in for a landing or shorts out at the first hint of water. For near silent external stimulation and waterproof play, we love the We-Vibe Touch. For rabbit styled toys, steer clear of rotating shafts because those tend to be not only noisy, and not very waterproof.
Two rules of thumb for finding a quiet toy:
- The bigger the toy, the louder it generally gets.
- Silicone is quieter than plastic
And one big one for waterproof toys:
Splash proof and waterproof are not the same thing. Splash proof cannot withstand a lot of water exposure and you cannot submerge it at all.
And, of course, if you still don’t know which way to turn, you can always hop on Betty’s live chat for some help in choosing. Our expert staff are always happy to help.